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How Training in the Martial Arts can help build Confidence for you and your child!

The ability to Develop Confidence for oneself can be a very challenging skill. for some, being confident and having confidence can come easy to them. They walk into a room and instantly everybody knows it’s them. for others, it’s not so easy and can take time to be confident in themselves and what they are doing. Before I jump into how doing Martial Arts can build some of that confidence, I wanted to first define: WHAT IS CONFIDENCE? The Cambridge dictionary defines Confidence as the quality of being certain of your abilities or of having trust in people, plans or the future. It’s a great feeling knowing that YOU can have that same confidence in yourself or even having the confidence in others or anything that you do! By training in Tang Soo do at our academy, you too can develop these as well:

  1. Set realistic goals: Start by setting achievable short-term goals that align with your abilities and current skill level. As you accomplish these smaller goals, your confidence will gradually build up, motivating you to set and achieve more significant goals.
  2. Focus on progress, not perfection: Understand that martial arts is a journey, and improvement takes time. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your personal progress. Celebrate your small victories and acknowledge the effort you put into your training.
  3. Embrace failure as a learning opportunity:Tang Soo Do involve making mistakes and learning from them. Instead of being discouraged by failures, view them as valuable lessons that help you grow and improve. See each setback as an opportunity to refine your skills and move forward.
  4. Visualize success: Use visualization techniques to imagine yourself successfully executing techniques and performing well in sparring or competitions. Visualization can help build confidence by mentally rehearsing positive outcomes and boosting your belief in your abilities.
  5. Practice regularly: Consistency is key. Regular training builds competence, muscle memory, and confidence. By consistently showing up to practice and putting in the effort, you’ll develop a solid foundation of skills and knowledge, which will enhance your confidence.
  6. Surround yourself with a supportive community:  Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals who encourage and uplift you can have a significant impact on your self-confidence. Their support will help you stay motivated and inspired.
  7. Work on your weaknesses: Identify areas where you feel less confident or struggle the most, and dedicate time to improve them. By focusing on your weaknesses, you can turn them into strengths, which will boost your overall self-confidence.
  8. Learn from experienced practitioners: Seeking guidance and learn from our highly trained and qualified Tang Soo Do instructors who can provide you with constructive feedback. Their expertise and advice can help you refine your technique, build confidence, and progress faster.
  9. Take part in competitions or demonstrations: Participating in martial arts competitions or demonstrations can be nerve-wracking but rewarding. Even if you don’t win, the experience itself will help you overcome fear and build confidence. It also provides an opportunity to test your skills against others and gauge your progress.
  10. Maintain a positive mindset: Cultivate a positive mindset by focusing on your strengths, staying optimistic, and adopting a growth mindset. Remind yourself that self-confidence is a process, and setbacks are natural. Approach challenges with a positive attitude and believe in your ability to overcome them.

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These are all amazing and important traits and characteristics to someone who is working on and developing their confidence. By even starting in some of these areas, one can build that important ability to remain confident in many aspects of their lives. If you yourself are reading this and want to start developing confidence for your child (or heck, even yourself!) Call us today and 856-405-0008. We are a Black Belt School and building and developing confidence is a fundamental part of our curriculum for our students!

Hope to see you at the Academy soon!

Mr. Lee MSW

3rd Degree Black Belt Instructor


Yi’s Karate of Vineland L.L.C. was founded in 2008 by Master Chuck Vertolli, an 7th degree Black Belt and Chief Master Instructor, Yi’s Karate of Vineland offer lessons for preschool children ages 4-6 and elementary age kids ages 7 and up are designed to develop critical building blocks kids need – specialized for their age group – for school excellence and later success in life.

Yi’s Karate of Vineland Adult Karate training is a complete adult fitness and conditioning program for adults who want to lose weight, get (and stay in shape), or learn self-defense in a supportive environment.

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